Excellent article. And yes it does bear repeating.
When we learn that you just have to do the job you love, whether you will get noticed or not, that is when we grow up. Along the way, sometimes we feel that the choices we make have to please others, they don’t. Sometimes we make choices that others say “I told you, you would finally make that choice!”. That choice might not have anything to do with them but things may have changed and now it is the right choice (the right thing to do) so we do it without explaining and that is when we become adults.