I think there are a lot of people that can relate to your story. I was fortunate to be able to make choices in my life and change when it seemed to be the best thing for me and my family. My husband had a very hard time staying at home while I was working full time. After an illness, getting back into the workforce as a fifty-something male was very difficult. I think he worked harder at trying to find a job than I did going to a regular job I loved.
I don’t know what my husband’s # would be but mine is #7. Most likely he would be a #1. Luckily we balance one another out!